Clarification

I have been intentionally vague about Mr. Sparks-a-lot every time I mention him (which has only been twice…) because his issues are his own and not for me to air out here on my blog.  If no one he knew in real life read this, then I might talk about it (to get feedback and advice from all of y’all more than anything!) but good friends of his read this blog.  (The friends who first introduced us…)  But I had an email this weekend and a seperate conversation with a real-life friend asking me about him and I thought some clarification was in order.

I realize that not discussing the reasons he and I aren’t, well, anything leave a lot of room for speculation about what’s going on.  But I will say this: I am not a home wrecker.  I was married to someone who was unfaithful and have felt the sting of adultery.  And I would never do that to another woman.  For heaven’s sake…I have had some winks/emails from some very hot guys on match.com who list their status as “Currently Separated” and I write them back and tell them I won’t even consider dating someone who isn’t divorced.   Totally divorced.  I waited to date until my divorce was F-I-N-A-L, the old-fashioned gal that I am and don’t want to be involved with someone who isn’t also. 

His life, his issues, his baggage and his true identity will remain a mystery…and my feelings for him (I’m going to see him this weekend!) will, too.  Hidden, at least, to those who don’t read this blog.